Shepping Nachas, not Nachos

This past quarter has certainly seen Beverly and me venturing back out into the world more than any time in the previous year, driven in large part by our achieving fully vaccinated status.  (If you’re eligible for the vaccine but not vaccinated, I’d like to hear your concerns and share some guidance from a rabbinic perspective; see https://www.rabbinicalassembly.org/sites/default/files/2021-01/Vaccination%20and%20Ethical%20Questions%20Posed%20by%20COVID-19%20Vaccines%20-%20Final.pdf for some examples of relevant texts). 

With the generosity of the UJA-Federation of New York and the New York Board of Rabbis, we headed up to a retreat center in northwestern Connecticut for a few days of most fulfilling and much needed R&R, study, and fellowship along with about 20 New York rabbis.  From there, Beverly and I then visited the Yiddish Book Center in Amherst, Massachusetts, for their first day of reopening after a 15-month hiatus.  All this followed my engagement in an intensive, ten-day, remote Yiddish Book Center program entitled “The Great Jewish Books for Clergy and Educators.”

These rich activities together conspired to suggest to me that my reading of texts has become a bit too superficial, with a focus on quantity over quality, and I am now inspired to spend more time savoring words on the printed page rather than gulping them down.  Perhaps this message can apply to how we approach prayer in the sanctuary as well, and as we begin to prepare ourselves for the High Holiday experience, it may be helpful to practice dwelling on a single passage that catches our eye rather than feel bound to turn pages at the pace of the prayer leader.  Please consider giving this a try over the next few months as you attend worship services during the months of Av and Elul preceding Rosh HaShanah – note the subtle hint to familiarize yourselves with the liturgy before the Jewish New Year!

Several rabbi opportunities presented themselves to me these past months – among these were leading an in-person Bar Mitzvah ceremony at the Jewish Center of the Moriches (JCM) as well as one on a beach in Montauk, NY, delivering talks on the Aleph Bet and on Estrangement of Adult Children from Parents, giving a D’var Torah at HaMakom in Santa Fe over Zoom and one in person at Temple Beth-El in Patchogue thanks to the graciousness of my friends and teachers Hazzan Cindy Freedman and Rabbi Azriel Fellner respectively, offering short teachings at a JCM nature hike and a Life and Legacy Chai Tea, and sharing a blessing with a congregant at a round number birthday.  Perhaps most enjoyable, however, was serving as a remote guest “lecturer” as my son, Dov, taught a lesson to a 12-year old who is studying for Bar Mitzvah.  When I declined the request of the parents to teach regularly because of too many other obligations, Beverly suggested Dov as a Bar Mitzvah teacher, and he willingly took on the task.  I was beaming with pride (shepping nachas) as I watched Dov in action, and I look forward to the ceremony in 2022.  In the meantime, I’ll continue reading books from our home library, but maybe at reduced speed.

B’shalom, Rabbi Jack

Last quarter’s reading list, with highlights denoted by an asterisk*

Theodor Herzl: The Charismatic Leader – Yale Jewish Lives series – Derek Penslar

Undula – Bruno Schulz – tr. from Polish by Frank Garrett

Responsa in a Moment: Halakhic Responses to Contemporary Issues Volume II* – David Golinkin

Essential Prose – Avrom Sutzkever – tr. Zackery Sholem Berger

Redeeming Relevance in the Book of Numbers – Francis Nataf

The Last Interview* – Eshkol Nevo – tr. Sondra Silverston

Studies in the Variety of Rabbinic Cultures – Gerson Cohen

The Tale of a Niggun – Elie Wiesel, illus. Mark Podwal

The Dark Young Man – Jacob Dinezon – tr. Tina Lunson

Ask the Rabbi: Women Rabbis Respond to Modern Halakhic Questions – Monique Susskind Goldberg and Diana Villa

Mother of Royalty: An Exposition of the Book of Ruth in the Light of the Sources – Yehoshua Bachrach

The Wandering Beggar – Solomon Simon

Rules of Estrangement: Why Adult Children Cut Ties and How to Heal the Conflict – Joshua Coleman

The Legends of the Rabbis Volume 2 – Judah Nadich

The Pharisees and Other Essays – Leo Baeck

City of Palaces – Poems by Isaac Berliner, Drawings by Diego Rivera, tr. Mindy Rinkewich

The Status of Women in Jewish Law: Responsa – David Golinkin

The Canvas and Other Stories* – Salomea Perl – tr. Ruth Murphy

Jokes and Their Relation to the Unconscious – Sigmund Freud – tr. James Strachey

Strange Ways – Rokhl Faygenberg – tr.  Robert and Golda Werman

Redeeming Relevance in the Book of Deuteronomy – Francis Nataf

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You’re on Mute!


Dear friends:

This “physicsrabbi” quarterly missive explores some positives that have emerged as a result of the ongoing pandemic.  In 2019, Beverly put many of our belongings into storage in Santa Fe and packed other items for shipment to New York based on a best guess of what we’d need during this Long Island adventure.  Among those things we had shipped were two that had received limited use previously, a shtender and a shoji screen (Japanese folding room divider).  Amazingly, these have both become invaluable over the past year. 

A shtender is a small (usually wooden) frame that holds a book, and it is most often associated with religious study.  I now realize that when I daven (pray) in a shul (synagogue), unconsciously I must be resting my siddur (prayer book) either on a podium (when I am leading a service) or on the back of the chair or pew in front of me.  Now that I am worshiping via Zoom, I place my book on the shtender and seem to alleviate some strain on my body.  My davening is conducted largely in my cloffice (a wonderful pandemic-inspired neologism combining “closet” and “office”), and to provide some privacy, we often put the Japanese screen in place behind me.  That screen was purchased years ago and never used until this past year, and it’s become invaluable as a room divider. 

The shtender and the Japanese screen are simply two examples of things we never knew would be so useful when they were acquired, and the same holds true for knowledge and experience.  We may not know at the time why there is value in some nugget of truth we learn or novel situation we face.  Yet down the road that piece of information or that lived experience can perhaps provide comfort.  The next time I learn something new which appears unnecessary or live through some episode that is difficult, perhaps I’ll consider that the value will only appear years later.  The ways of G_d are truly mysterious.

Aside from conducting the usual Zoom Shabbat services this past quarter, I led Tu BiSh’vat and Passover seders, a Purim service, a Yizkor service, Yahrzeit minyans for my Mom, a study session to override the fast of the firstborn, taught at the Sunday school once a month, and gave newly prepared talks on (1) Aleph Bet: Stories and Teachings from the Hebrew Letters, and (2) Seder Customs Around the World, as well as reprising a slide show on the (3) Jews in China, which we held on the Chinese New Year. 

Last weekend, Beverly and I took an excursion from Long Island into Brooklyn and got to see an art installation by a young woman we met at Kehillat Beijing who is now in New York.  Amalya Megerman showed us her Super Cleanse exhibit which explores deep questions, including the role of Jewish ritual.  You can also view some of her stained glass Judaica (and non-Judaica) pieces at http://amalyamegerman.com/shop.

At a Zoom Shiva session for a friend and colleague from Los Alamos, Karina Yusim, I marveled that friends and relatives currently living in Russia, Israel, and across the United States were all able to participate simultaneously.  Zoom has also been one of those positives to emerge from the pandemic, and I appreciated the respectful tone of the Shiva – everyone stayed focused on Karina and took their turn speaking.  To quote Ecclesiastes (3:7), there is a time for silence and a time for speaking.  Shiva provides us with the opportunity to support the bereaved through our presence, not through our chatter.  Yet the recent observance of Yom HaShoah reminds us that there is also a time to speak up and speak forcefully, particularly when the lives of other human beings are at stake. 

May we all have the wisdom to know when to speak and when to stay silent, and may our masks soon become unnecessary.

B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack

Last quarter’s reading list, with highlights denoted by an asterisk*

Light and Shadow – Herz Bergner, tr. Alec Braizblatt

Jewish Theology in our Time – ed. Elliot Cosgrove

The World As I See It – Albert Einstein

And the Bride Closed the Door – Ronit Matalon, tr. Jessica Cohen

21 Lessons for the 21st Century – Yuval Harari

Stan Lee: A Life in Comics* – Yale Jewish Lives series – Liel Leibovitz

Honey on the Page – Miriam Udel

Faith After the Holocaust – Eliezer Berkovits

Printing the Talmud: From Bomberg to Schottenstein* – ed. Sharon Mintz and Gabriel Goldstein

Diary of a Lonely Girl – Miriam Karpilove, tr. Jessica Kirzane

Redeeming Relevance in the Book of Leviticus – Francis Nataf

Rereading the Rabbis: A Woman’s Voice – Judith Hauptman

King David’s Harp: Autobiographical Essays by Jewish Latin American Writers* – ed. Stephen Sadow

Selected Plays – Hanoch Levin (Vol. 1), tr. Jessica Cohen, Evan Fallenberg, and Naaman Tammuz

Reimagining the Bible – Howard Schwartz

A Mother’s Kisses – Bruce Jay Friedman

Wisdom of the Heart: The Teachings of Rabbi Ya’akov of Izbica-Radzyn – Ora Wiskind-Elper

Houdini: The Elusive American* – Yale Jewish Lives series – Adam Begley

The Name – Michal Govrin, tr. Barbara Harshav

None Is Too Many: Canada and the Jews of Europe 1933-1948 – Irving Abella and Harold Troper

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A Decade of Dispatches

Dear Friends:
This quarterly message to friends and family about my rabbinic exploits marks the fortieth such missive and ten years of electronic summaries. (As always, if you want to opt out of these messages, please just send me a note to that effect). 

The number “forty” has special Jewish meaning.  We recall the forty days that Noah and company were on the ark and the forty days that Moses was up on Mt. Sinai.There were also the forty days that the spies were in Israel, and the Israelites heeded the majority who warned of the dangers of proceeding to the Promised Land rather than listening to the minority vote of confidence in Adonai.  The resultant punishment, a year for a day, was the forty years of wandering in the wilderness. More positively, Rabbi Akiva was 40 when he started studying Torah, and according to Maimonides (M.T. Hil. Avodat Kochavim 1:3) “Abraham was 40 years old when he became aware of his Creator.” 
 
It is central to my philosophy of Jewish education that we can approach serious engagement with Judaism even (or especially) well past the age of Bar or Bat Mitzvah.  My own experience is that not long after becoming Bar Mitzvah, I distanced myself from Judaism, only to return when, after a decade, I discovered that Judaism was far more insightful, wise, and profound than what I’d thought as a child. My primary rabbinic goal is to share this insight with other adult Jews who have negative connotations based, I think erroneously, on misunderstandings of our tradition.
 
To that end, we revived Saturday morning (Zoom) services this quarter at the Jewish Center of the Moriches (JCM), and our focus is on a discussion of the Torah portion, with an eye toward contemporary events. With Zoom, I also was able to lead Torah discussions with HaMakom in Santa Fe, share a teaching with Kehillat Beijing on Chanukah, and chant from the Chumash at Temple Beth El here in Patchogue. 

These and other events like our in-person (outdoors) JCM Sukkot, Simchat Torah, and Chanukah celebrations and my Zoom talk on the Mitzvah of Voting  to Temple Beth Shalom in Santa Fe hopefully provided adults with the opportunity to enjoy the beauty and wisdom (and challenges) of Judaism, even for adults who didn’t experience those pleasures as children. Life cycle ceremonies are other teaching moments for me, and I was officiant this past quarter at a wedding, a mezuzah attachment, a headstone dedication, and a funeral.
 
Whether you’re looking at age 40 from above or below, you can still gain an appreciation of Judaism.  New studies even suggest that 70 may be emerging as the new 40. A study conducted by Oddfellows, a non-profit friendship group, has identified 70 and beyond as one of the happiest times in our lives.  Perhaps they were thinking about adult Jewish education when they did the study!
 
B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack

Last quarter’s reading list, with highlights denoted by an asterisk*

The Stranger: Immigrant, Migrant, Refugee and Jewish Law – ed. Walter Jacob
Apropos of Nothing* – Woody Allen
Relational Judaism – Ron Wolfson
Pain – Zeruya Shalev
The Invitation: Living a Meaningful Death – Miriam Maron and Gershon Winkler
Redeeming Relevance in the Book of Genesis – Francis Nataf
Redeeming Relevance in the Book of Exodus – Francis Nataf
Joseph: Portraits through the Ages – Alan Levenson
Mishkan Aveilut: Where Grief Resides – CCAR ed. Eric Weiss
Melekh Ravitsh: The Eccentric Outback Quest of an Urbane Yiddish Poet From Poland – Anna Epstein
Responsa in a Moment I – David Golinkin
The Dairy Restaurant – Ben Katchor
Fifty Shades of Talmud – Maggie Anton
Scripture Windows: Toward a Practice of Bibliodrama* – Peter Pitzele
Ben Hecht: Fighting Words, Moving Pictures* – Adina Hoffman
Ernst Toller: Plays Two – tr. Alan Pearlman
Lessons from Lucy* – Dave Barry (infused with Jewish lessons though not explicit about it)
House on Endless Waters – Emuna Elon
In Potiphar’s House: The Interpretive Life of Biblical Texts – James Kugel
Robin Williams: A Singular Portrait – Arthur Grace (while virtually devoid of Jewish content, a singular comic genius worth examination, IMHO)
Pepper, Silk and Ivory: Amazing Stories about Jews in the Far East – Marvin Tokayer and Ellen Rodman
Midrash Aleph Beth – Deborah Sawyer
Darkness at Noon – Arthur Koestler
The Mystical Study of Ruth: Midrash HaNe’elam of the Zohar to the Book of Ruth – ed. and trans. Lawrence Englander with Herbert Basser
The Aleph Beit of Rebbi Akiva – tr. Yaacov Dovid Shulman (2 vol.)
Remains of the Day – Kazuo Ishiguro
My Wild Garden – Meir Shalev
A Passage In the Night – Sholem Asch
Prince of the Press – Joshua Teplitsky
The Land of Truth: Talmudic Tales, Timeless Teachings* – Jeffrey Rubenstein

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Filet Mignon and the Importance of Voting

Dear Friends:
I was never very skilled in languages and only learned as I prepared this message that “mignon” is the French word for “cute,” as in “filet mignon.” But what about the word “minyan?”  The Hebrew word “minyan” refers to ten adult Jews who are required for public prayer according to Jewish tradition.  Note that these adults need not have celebrated the occasion of becoming an adult (at age 13) through a Bar or Bat Mitzvah ceremony to be included in the headcount.  And note also that we continue to worship together even without a minyan – there just are certain prayers (Kaddish, Boruchu, Torah reading from a scroll) that we reserve for those occasions when we have a minyan.
 
What does “minyan” have to do with voting, however?  “Minyan” is related to the word for “count” and also to the word for “vote.”  And in that sense, when we attend a worship service, when we help make up a minyan, we are casting our vote.  I incorporated this thought in my Erev Rosh HaShanah sermon and have been preparing an extended talk on voting from the Jewish text perspective.
 
The High Holidays themselves were a mixed blessing this year.  Although I spent many hours in my office/closet in our apartment rather than in a synagogue with others present, it was a treat to have relatives and friends from outside the Jewish Center of the Moriches (JCM) participating with us.  In addition to the regular services, we Zoomed children’s activities on Rosh HaShanah and Yom Kippur, including a skit performed by a dozen budding thespians.  JCM did hold a few in-person events (a pre-High Holiday presentation, a memorial/kever avot ceremony at the cemetery, shofar blowing and tashlich at the canal near the shul).  And I officiated at both a funeral and a wedding over the past few months.  For my JCM congregants I’m planning on carving out some live office hours if there’s interest.  But most of my rabbi-ing has been remote – conducting weekly Friday night services with JCM, leading Torah discussions for HaMakom in Santa Fe, reading from a chumash for Temple Israel in Riverhead, and leading services for my Dad’s Yahrzeit at Temple Beth-El in Patchogue.
 
Just as one can attend services either remotely or in person at many shuls, so, too, one can vote either in person or by mail-in ballot.  The important thing is to VOTE, and to get everyone you know to vote as well.  Let’s all help make a national minyan on November 3!
 
B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack

Last quarter’s reading list, with highlights denoted by an asterisk*

Out of My Later Years – Albert Einstein
Jews on Broadway – Stewart Lane
Siberia – Abraham Sutzkever
They Changed the World: People of the Manhattan Project – aj Melnick
The Miracle of Intervale Avenue* – Jack Kugelmass
Living a Meaningful Life Without Purpose* – Gershon Winkler
My Uncle the Netziv – Baruch HaLevi Epstein
Three Times Chai – Laney Katz Becker
Jerome Robbins: A Life in Dance** – Wendy Lesser
Rosh Hashanah Readings – ed. Dov Peretz Elkins
Sparks of Mussar – Chaim Ephraim Zaitchik
God of Becoming and Relationship – Bradley Shavit Artson
The Great Escape* – Kati Marton

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Zooming Around the World

Dear Friends:
I am often struck by how meaningful, timely, and powerful our Jewish texts can be. Psalm 69:14 says, “May my prayer to You, G_d, come in a favorable time.”  The Talmud (B. Ber 7b-8a) asks what it means that a particular time is a “favorable” time, and answers by teaching us that a favorable time is whenever the congregation prays. Our prayers are offered whenever we feel so moved, but there is something synergistic about praying in community or even at the same time as others in the community, whether we can be physically present or not.  Perhaps this teaches us something about the value of Zoom in a time when it is difficult at best to worship inside our public spaces.
 
These past three months I indeed had my share of Jewish Zoom experiences.  At the Jewish Center of the Moriches (JCM), we’ve continued weekly Friday night Zoom services, and we’ve gotten a few folks from outside the Long Island area to join us, one “upside” of Zoom.  I’ve also co-led Zoom services on occasional Saturday mornings with HaMakom, nominally based in Santa Fe, and I was able to make it back to NY for lunch!

Speaking of no jet lag, Beverly and I had a wonderful week’s tour of Israel through JNF (Jewish National Fund) without leaving the comfort of our living room – and as the oldest (and only) rabbi on the trip, I got to lead the Shehecheyanu when we “landed.”

Beverly and I also took a Jewish-centered tour of Cuba through Ayelet Tours via Zoom.  Even more distant, there was a reunion of sorts on Erev Shavuot with many friends from the Beijing expat Jewish community, Kehillat Beijing.  Dozens of individuals joined in as we lit candles, listened to the talented klez musicians, learned about the traditional 613 mitzvot in the Torah, and caught up on everyone’s latest adventures. It was a tremendously enjoyable way to start the holiday.
 
On more than one occasion I taught a class I created during the pandemic entitled “My Son (or Daughter) the Doctor: Physicians in Jewish Texts,” sharing this talk with Limmud New Mexico, the East End (of Long Island) Jewish Community Council, and HaMakom. On a recent Saturday night I taught a mini-course for JCM on a book I read called “The First Book of Jewish Jokes” (see below), after which we shared some Jewish jokes (thanks, recent-bar-mitzvah Max, for your contribution!), and then I led a Havdalah service for those present.

Venturing into unfamiliar territory, I shared a story of isolation at a Story Slam for the nearby synagogue, Temple Beth El in Patchogue.  But my favorite Zoom experience was chanting the Priestly Benediction for a couple whose wedding plans went quite awry as a result of the virus. That text, from the Book of Numbers 6:24-26, continues to guide us to this very day, and may Adonai show each of you kindness and grant you peace.
 
B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack


Scroll down for last quarter’s reading list.

Last quarter’s reading list is below, with highlights denoted by an asterisk*

God’s To-Do List – Ron Wolfson
A Jewish Refugee in New York – Kadya Molodovsky (tr. Anita Norich)
The Ineffable Name of God: Man – Abraham Joshua Heschel
Between Sky and Sea* – Herz Bergner
The First Book of Jewish Jokes – ed. Elliott Oring, tr. Michaela Lang
The Holy Brothers: Reb Elimelekh of Lizhensk and Reb Zusha of Anipoli – Simcha Raz
Making Physics: A Biography of Brookhaven National Laboratory, 1946-1972 – Robert P Crease
Hasidic Commentary on the Torah – Ora Wiskind-Elper
Hasidism – Buber
Fly Already – Etgar Keret
The Latke Who Couldn’t Stop Screaming – Lemony Snicket
Dear Zealots – Amos Oz
Karl Marx* (Jewish Lives series) – Shlomo Avineri

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Zoom Gali Gali

Dear Friends:
If ever there was a time to feel thankful for all of my many blessings, it is indeed now. Though we live on eastern Long Island and are immersed in a coronavirus hotspot, Beverly and I are healthy, I am still employed, and we have no problems getting groceries or other necessities.  Indeed, we have thoroughly enjoyed getting to eat three meals a day together and often take a walk to the ocean or to see the trees blooming. 

Sadly, so many have lost their livelihoods, their support network, their health, their friends and family, or even their lives.  May their memories not only be a blessing to us, but may they spur us to combat this disease and discover therapeutics and vaccines as swiftly as possible.  Keyn y’hi ratzon – so may it be G_d’s will.
 
Beverly and I spent a week in Israel just as the virus was gaining attention outside China; I was involved in a meeting at Soreq Nuclear Center south of Tel Aviv and visited a colleague at Ben-Gurion University of the Negev in Be’ersheva. We enjoyed spending time with Beverly’s relatives and experienced Shabbat services in Shohom and Tel Aviv. My Hebrew improved slightly but not nearly enough to follow the lyrics of the many Israeli songs that Beverly has danced to via Zoom in our living room of late (that song list has mercifully NOT included the old classic from my youth, Zum Gali Gali).
 
My rabbinic duties this past quarter involved a mix between live events (adult education classes, a Tu BiSh’vat seder, Friday night and Saturday morning services) before the stay-at-home orders went into effect, and electronic events once we began our lives in the age of Covid-19.
 
As rabbi of The Jewish Center of the Moriches and with Beverly’s help as technical back-up, I’ve taught classes, led services and seders, read stories to the Sunday School, and worked with Bar and Bat Mitzvah students, almost all from the comfort of our apartment.  The electronic platforms have also allowed us to participate in Limmud Beijing and learn about a wonderful new Haggadah created by our friend from Kehillat Beijing, Leon Fenster (see https://leonfenster.com/about-the-beijing-haggadah). 
 
I hope each of you stays healthy, and as we become increasingly aware of the importance of staying in touch with each other, please drop me a line at physicsrabbi@gmail.com and let me know how you are doing.
 
B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack

Adjusting to the stay-at-home order has taken a toll on my attention span, so many short pieces make up the bulk of my reading list this past quarter (*denotes favorites).
 

  • Entire Yerushalmi Tractate Eruvin in one burst of two days while traveling
  • Blood Covenant – Mitchell Chefitz  (my first e-book, a consequence of overseas travel)
  • 1948* – Yoram Kaniuk
  • Joe the Waiter – Y.Y. Zevin
  • Voyage of the Visionary: Commentary of Rabbi Moshe Alshich on Jonah
  • Why Is This Night Different from All Other Nights?: The Four Questions Around the World – Ilana Kurshan
  • Maimonides on Listening to Music – translated by Henry George Farmer
  • Journey of the Soul: An Allegorical Commentary on Jonah adapted from the Vilna Gaon- adapted by Moshe Schapiro
  • Five Cities of Refuge* – Lawrence Kushner and David Mamet
  • God and Man in Judaism – Leo Baeck
  • The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse – Charlie Mackesy (filled with wisdom though not specifically Jewish)
  • A Chronicle of Hardship and Hope: An autobiographical account by Rabbi Yom Tov Lipmann Heller translated by Avraham Finkel
  • Maimonides on Judaism and the Jewish People – Menachem Kellner
  • Talmudic and Rabbinical Chronology – Edgar Frank
  • The Song of Songs: A New Translation – Marcia Falk
  • The Sabbath Epistle of Rabbi Abraham Ibn Ezra – translated by Mordechai S. Goodman
  • The Abarbanel on the Yom Kippur Service in the Beis Hamikdash – tr. Rabbi Elimelech Lepon
  • War and Terrorism in Jewish Law* – ed. Walter Jacob
  • A Midrash Reader – Jacob Neusner
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A tale of two bridges (remember crowds?)


Photo by: JEENAH MOON / GETTY
People participate in a Jewish solidarity march across the Brooklyn Bridge on January 5, 2020, in New York City.
In some of my recent quarterly rabbinic messages, I spoke about the experiences that Beverly and I have had out on Long Island these past months participating in services at a wide variety of synagogues.  My appreciation goes to the spiritual leaders at these institutions who have given me many honors, including aliyot and chanting the Haftarah. Our Jewish teachings encourage us to build bridges to Jews who practice Judaism differently than we do; I’m now serving on the East End Jewish Community Council and learning from colleagues in eastern Suffolk County. Judaism also encourages us to build bridges to people from other traditions and to build bridges to our past as well as our future.
On January 5, 2020, instead of celebrating the completion of my nearly 7 ½ year daily page of the Babylonian Talmud-study cycle, I took advantage of our proximity to New York City and joined thousands of people who marched in solidarity across the Brooklyn Bridge to raise awareness about a scourge of anti-Semitic crimes. I was struck by the juxtaposition between this event and a parallel one on the other side of the globe that same day (see accompanying photos).  Focusing on the positive, I am proud to contribute to building bridges of mutual respect towards others.

The funeral of General Soleimani from the Times of Israel, Creator:Morteza Jaberian
Credit:AP
People chanting “No Compromise, No Surrender.”

In December, the Jewish Center of the Moriches–where I currently serve in a rabbinic position–was invited to be part of the Center Moriches annual tree lighting ceremony. Despite the chilly weather, I felt it was important for the Jewish Center (JCM) to be represented at this event; I spoke to those gathered, as the large public Hanukkiah was turned on. The week prior, I got to offer a special birthday blessing to Beverly’s father at a Friday night service at JCM, and a few Friday services after that, I had the privilege to conduct a baby naming ceremony at the Jewish Center. During Sunday religious school at JCM, I enjoyed sharing teachings with the students and learning about some of the challenges Jewish pre-teens face today. Although I was never a Cub or Boy Scout, I led JCM’s annual Scout Shabbat service, and I was even provided with a patch.

Our move across the country has disrupted my reading, so I can only provide below a modest list of recent books I’ve enjoyed.  (As always, an asterisk denotes an especially noteworthy selection).  I’m hoping my reading pace will pick up once we’ve settled into our Patchogue apartment, and if you believe that, I’ve got a bridge to sell you.
 
B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack

 
 
The Kingdom* – Amir Or
Everything is God: The Radical Path of Nondual Judaism – Jay Michaelson
Claper – Alicia Freilich
Have I Got a Cartoon For You! – Bob Mankoff
Yitzhak Rabin (Jewish Lives series)* – Itamar Rabinovich
From the Four Winds – Haim Sabato
Late Beauty – Tuvia Ruebner
Jews and Words – Amos Oz and Fania Oz-Salzberger
A Death: Notes of a Suicide – Zalman Shneour
A Field Guide to the Jewish People* – Dave Barry, Adam Mansbach, and Alan Zweibel
These Mountains: Selected Poems of Rivka Miriam – translated by Linda Stern Zisquit
Jewish Community of Long Island – Rhoda Miller

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If You Can’t Lick ‘Em, Join ‘Em

This past quarter has involved many changes, most notably a transition for Beverly and me from northern New Mexico to eastern Long Island, New York.  My science (mostly program development) is now based at Brookhaven National Laboratory where I often see wild turkeys, geese, deer, and even woodchucks (outdoors, not in the Lab buildings). 

Rabbinically, I am now serving as the spiritual leader at The Jewish Center of the Moriches (JCM) https://www.jewishcenterofthemoriches.com.  JCM holds weekly Friday night services, and monthly Saturday morning services, so Beverly and I have made the rounds to four other synagogues so far on Shabbat mornings, and we expect to try out some others in the future. 
 
As a means of attracting families with younger children on Friday nights, once a month the Friday evening service at JCM is held earlier than usual, often with a fun oneg theme.  Following in the JCM tradition, the November oneg involved making your own ice cream sundae (apparently ice cream has an appeal all year long, not just in the warmer weather).
 
To prepare for the service, I discovered that Ben and Jerry’s, Haagen-Dazs, and Baskin Robbins were all started by Jews.  The latter, I learned, adopted the “31 flavors” slogan to suggest that each day of the month could be a different flavor. The multiple synagogues which Beverly and I have been attending imply that there might be “31 flavors” to Judaism as well.  Each shul we go to offers different tunes, different teachings, a different physical layout, different leadership, a different liturgy, different prayer books, and a different congregational feel.  Yet each has some things we enjoy and from which we derive satisfaction and fulfillment. 

Especially in these times of divisiveness, I try hard not to think of Judaism as a set of disparate denominations but rather as a large array of flavors.  All are legitimate, and all have something worthwhile to offer if we remain open-minded in our approach to the particular style of worship in which we find ourselves.
 
Over the course of the last four or five months I have led Shabbat and holiday services in Los Alamos, Santa Fe, and Center Moriches, and I’ve been the officiant at events honoring wedding anniversaries, special birthdays, and Bat Mitzvahs.  I’ve also shared songs, stories, teachings, and even reprised my slideshow talk on the Jews of China for a Hadassah meeting.  My hope is that those in attendance enjoyed the “flavor” of what I presented and extracted some pleasure (though not any calories) from the experience.
 
Despite the chaos of moving, I did manage to squeeze in some reading, and I provide my reading list below.  An asterisk denotes a particular favorite, but each book was “tasty” in its own way.
 
B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack
 
After One-Hundred-and-Twenty* – Hillel Halkin
An Egyptian Novel – Orly Castel-Bloom
Six Memos from the Last Millenium* – Joseph Skibell
Collected Poems – Avraham Ben Yitzhak
Yiddish for Pirates – Gary Barwin
Number Our Days – Barbara Myerhoff
Maimonides’ Principles: The Fundamentals of Jewish Faith – Aryeh Kaplan
One God Clapping* – Alan Lew
Yom Kippur Readings – Dov Peretz Elkins
Submarine Z-1 – Lon Chanukoff
Whose Little Boy Are You? – Hanoch Bartov
The Quitter* – Harvey Pekar (and Dean Haspiel)
Hazor: The Rediscovery of a Great Citadel of the Bible – Yigael Yadin
Julius Rosenwald: Repairing the World – Hasia Diner

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Go East, Young Man

Los Alamos-Where Discoveries are Made

June 18th marked the anniversary of my first day at Los Alamos National (then Scientific) Laboratory; I arrived as a clueless graduate student many years (alright, decades!) ago. Over the course of my career at Los Alamos, I have been privileged to rub elbows with some of the brightest scientific minds on the planet, and I have been honored to lead both Physics Division, and most recently, Theoretical Division.

Now, Beverly and I are embarking on a new adventure. I recently accepted a position at Brookhaven National Laboratory on Long Island, NY, with a start date in late July. The move will put us closer to Beverly’s family in New York City, and to friends up and down the east coast. For those of you with whom my interactions have been mostly electronic, this should be a seamless transition. I’ll try to keep you informed of my rabbi-ing activities, assuming we can find Jews in New York.

The past few months have been plenty busy even without the Jewish amenities of a major metropolitan area. Life cycle events, as usual, have been time-consuming, and have ranged from the sad (long-time Los Alamos resident Burton Krohn’s funeral, remarks for the funeral of Mauri Katz, unveiling of the tombstone of Evelyn Frank) to the super-joyous (the wedding of Beijing congregants Jake and Becca at a beautiful waterfront hotel in Boston).

On the more moderate emotional level, I ended study of Babylonian Talmud Tractate Chullin as a way to obviate the Fast of the Firstborn just before Pesach (only a few months to go in the 7+ year Daf Yomi cycle), and followed up with community seders in Santa Fe at HaMakom and in Trinidad, Colorado, at Temple Aaron. In addition to leading many Friday night services in Los Alamos and co-leading Saturday morning services with Hazzan Cindy at HaMakom in Santa Fe, I participated with other Santa Fe Jewish clergy in a moving Yom HaShoah event held at the New Mexico State Capitol building, organized by the Jewish Federation. Members of a local church got to hear me describe the history of Jews in China, and I moderated a HaMakom continuing education event at which we heard from a panel of half a dozen Jews who grew up outside the United States. I was also interviewed by Rabbi Neil Amswych for a KSFR Soul Searching program; we discussed Science and Judaism because of our mutual backgrounds in both areas.

Beverly and I attended a talk on the Bnei Menashe (Jews in India who believe they are descendants of one of the lost tribes of Israel) at which the renowned translator and author, Hillel Halkin, spoke. Two days later, on my red-eye flight to the East Coast to conduct the Boston wedding, I had the amazing privilege of sitting next to Hillel. After a half-hour of most delightful conversation we both slept for the balance of the flight, but Hillel honored his promise to send me his latest book, After One-Hundred-and-Twenty: Reflecting on Death, Mourning, and the Afterlife in the Jewish Tradition, which I recommend highly.

This e-mail address will be the best way to reach me for the foreseeable future, and if you find yourself wandering around Suffolk County, New York, please do let us know. I recommend that you take the red-eye flight to come visit us – you, too, may get to sit next to an author!

B’shalom and l’hitra’ot,
Rabbi Jack

Reading list from the past few months (asterisk denotes an especially enjoyable read)

Fiction
The Princess Bride* – William Goldman (OK, maybe not a Jewish book, but Miracle Max and his wife, Valerie, are Jewish, as was Goldman)
Suddenly, Love – Aharon Appelfeld
Suite Francaise – Irene Nemirovsky
The Bellarosa Connection – Saul Bellow
And So Is the Bus – Yossel Birstein
What We Talk About When We Talk About Anne Frank – Nathan Englander
Up From Orchard Street – Eleanor Widmer

Poetry
The lowercase jew – Rodger Kamenetz

Graphic novel
We Are On Our Own – Miriam Katin

Non-fiction
My Life: From a Russian Shtetl to the Golden Land – Samuel Osipow
Faith and Trust – Chazon Ish
From Prejudice to Destruction: Anti-Semitism, 1700-1933 – Jacob Katz
Minor and Modern Festivals (JPS Popular Judaica Library) – Priscilla Fishman
Jabotinsky* – Hillel Halkin

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Shema = mc2

Beverly & R' Jack in Purim customes

Going to the same synagogue week after week can be boring for many Jews, myself included. One creative solution exercised by a large number of co-religionists is to eschew synagogues altogether. As a rabbi, I am forbidden to recommend that approach lest my credentials be rescinded, though I understand how you feel, having been there myself many years ago. A different way to deal with the repetitiveness of Shabbat services in a single institution is to shul-hop. If you are fortunate enough to live within easy commute of several synagogues, you might make a decision where to daven each Shabbat based on your mood that day.

Mostly in my physics role, I found myself traveling a fair amount over the past quarter, and I had the opportunity to attend services in several different synagogues. Invariably, at each venue I was exposed to a new idea, an innovative practice, or an inspirational teaching. I look forward to sharing and recreating these experiences both at the Los Alamos Jewish Center and at HaMakom in Santa Fe over the coming months, and if I don’t see you on a regular basis, I’ll assume that you, too, are trying out different synagogues.

My thanks go to Temple Israel of Alameda, California (Rabbi Annette Koch), Congregation Beth Shalom in Seattle (Rabbis Jill Borodin and Paula Rose), Or Chadash in Damascus, MD (Rabbi Alison Kobey who gets a special thanks for the extra bag of M&Ms), Beth Shalom Congregation in Columbia, MD (Rabbi Susan Grossman), Madison Jewish Center in Brooklyn (Rabbi Shae Kane), and Park Slope Jewish Center, also in Brooklyn (Rabbi Carie Carter).

My own rabbinic leadership this quarter included the usual Shabbat services in New Mexico when I was actually in town, supplemented by a Tu Bi Sh’vat seder, a rousing Purim evening modeled on my experience a decade ago at Or Chadasch in Vienna, Austria, and sadly, presiding over the funeral for a dear friend and wonderful human being, Joe Sapir. May his memory be a blessing.

I also delivered the opening prayer for one session of the New Mexico State Senate, gave a short teaching about generation to generation at a Life and Legacy program (see https://www.jewishlifelegacy.org/), provided a brief introduction to Judaism to seven Berea College students and the pastor who led them on a spring break interfaith week, and delivered three formal talks.

One talk, titled “The Pinyan Minyan: Jews of China Then and Now,” was organized by Oasis in Albuquerque, the second talk was part of the Los Alamos Lenten Series and was called “Reading From Left (Brain) to Right (Brain): Wisdom in the Jewish Texts,” and the third was conducted under the auspices of the HaMakom Continuing Education program. By HaMakom request, I spoke on the relationship between science and religion in a presentation entitled “From Adam to Atom: How Science and Religion Interact in the Mind of a Physicist/Rabbi.”

My deep appreciation goes to members of Los Alamos who came to a hastily convened Yahrzeit ma’ariv minyan on a cold and wintery evening in memory of my mom, Shirley Shlachter, when all my planning about attending a synagogue in the D.C. area came to naught because of flight cancelations due to winter weather.

For a change of pace in your synagogue routine, join in the 130th anniversary celebration of historic Temple Aaron in Trinidad, Colorado, Friday-Sunday, June 21-23rd. Donations to help restore this magnificent building are always welcome—they’ve already raised $75,000! https://www.templeaaron.org/130th-anniv-gala

My travels, as usual, gave me additional reading opportunities. Below is the list from this quarter with a few annotations.

B’shalom, Rabbi Jack

Fiction
The Prophet’s Wife* – Milton Steinberg – an extended Midrash on Hosea
Twilight and Other Stories – Shulamith Hareven – translated from Hebrew
Life is a Parable – Pinhas Sadeh – translated from Hebrew
Jewish Warsaw Between the Wars – Ephraim Kaganovski (tr. from Yiddish by Bracha Weingrod)
The Three Day Departure of Mrs. Annette Zinn – Mary E. Carter (not yet available, but you’ll enjoy it when it comes out)

Essays, Biography, Autobiography
Because G_d Loves Stories – ed. Steve Zeitlin
Mark Rothko: Toward the Light in the Chapel* – Annie Cohen-Solal
Grand Things to Write a Poem On: A verse autobiography of Shmuel Hanagid – Hillel Halkin
Karl Kraus: In These Great Times – ed. Harry Zohn
Letters to My Palestinian Neighbor – Yossi Klein Halevi
Harvey Milk: His Lives and Death* – Lillian Faderman
The Inveterate Dreamer*- Ilan Stavans
Report from a Parisian Paradise: Essays from France* – Joseph Roth

Other non-fiction, Scholarly
Torah in the Observatory: Gersonides, Maimonides, Song of Songs – Menachem Kellner
The Great Partnership – Jonathan Sacks
Isaac Abravanel: Letters – ed., trans., and introduction by Cedric Cohen Skalli
Passover: JPS Popular Judaica Library – ed. Mordell Klein
Photographing the Jewish Nation: Pictures from S. An-Sky’s Ethnographic Expedition* – ed. Avrutin, et.al.

Poetry**
The Poems of H. Leivick and Others – tr. from Yiddish by Leon Gildin
Miracle – Amir Or – tr. from Hebrew
My Blue Piano – Else Lasker-Schuler – tr. from German

* Highly recommended
** Thin books designed to pad my reading list

Rabbi Jack Shlachter
Judaism for Your Nuclear Family
physicsrabbi@gmail.com
www.physicsrabbi.com

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