Hodu for Hoodoos

Hoodoos in Los Alamos canyon

Dear Friends:

I’m often intrigued by false cognates.  Hoodoos, also called tent rocks, are common geological features around Los Alamos, the result of erosion of soft rock underneath a harder rock.  This results in a tall, frequently tapered spire with a hard rock sitting up on the top.  Upon first seeing these amazing structures, one wonders how that rock got up there!  “Hodu” in Hebrew means to give thanks, and though the words sound quite similar, they are unrelated etymologically.  Nonetheless, this false cognate (words that sound the same in different languages but mean something completely different) teaches us an important lesson.  We have so many things for which we can and should be thankful, including the beauties of the natural world.
 
The Jewish practice of starting every day with a series of morning blessings is particularly wise, in my opinion, because it forces us to begin our routine by acknowledging all that we have for which to be thankful.  I encourage us to consider taking two minutes out of our morning to open our eyes to the miracles around us.  Please feel free to share with me the results of this experiment; I’m confident it will help inspire me to focus more carefully on my own, sometimes rote practice.
 
This past quarter included a week-long trip to Israel to visit Beverly’s father, and we were fortunate to time things and experience both Israel Memorial Day and Israeli Independence Day.  Regardless of one’s views on the controversy in Israel, I am glad that we are including a prayer for the State of Israel in our services at the Los Alamos Jewish Center and HaMakom.
 
Sadly, I officiated at multiple unveilings (Annie Kuzava, Itai Rosen, Zev Guber) and funerals (Harvey Taylor, Harry Rosenblum) which also serve as a reminder for us to be thankful for each day of life.  It was certainly joyous to help Zev’s grandson receive his Hebrew name (Zev) – the Ashkenazic custom of memorializing one who has passed away is particularly powerful to me.  Preparing and delivering presentations on 1) the Jewish dimension to Robert Oppenheimer and Lewis Strauss, 2) Maimonides as a medieval exemplar of the unity between faith and science, 3) the Jewish perspective on medical aid in dying, and 4) a reprise of a talk I’ve given previously on the Jews at Los Alamos during the Manhattan Project.
 
Listening to the beautiful song by Craig Taubman called “Kaddishel” about the person who recites the memorial prayer for one who has died prompted another false cognate for me with the word “codicil,” the modification to a will.  Perhaps we should be living our lives so that our wills – what we pass on to the next generation – are modified to ensure people will remember us for how we helped make the world a better place when we left than when we came in.
 
B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack

The long flight to and from Israel was a wonderful reading opportunity.  Furthermore, Beverly and I took a brief trip to Jerusalem from Tel Aviv one afternoon, in part so I could pick up a book I’d ordered.  That saga is one I love to share – feel free to ask to hear it!  (Books I particularly enjoyed are marked by an asterisk).
 
Read
And the Crooked Shall Be Made Straight* – S.Y. Agnon; tr. Michael P. Kramer

The Order of Time – Carlo Rovelli

Taking Hold of Torah – Arnold Eisen

The Netanyahus – Joshua Cohen

The Lost Shtetl* – Max Gross

The Passionate Torah* – ed. Danya Ruttenberg

We Stand Divided: The Rift Between American Jews and Israel* – Daniel Gordis

Tzedakah: A Way of Life – ed. Azriel Eisenberg

The Diaries of Rabbi Ha’im Yosef David Azulai – tr. and annotated by Benjamin Cymerman

Here All Along: Finding Meaning, Spirituality, and a Deeper Connection to Life–in Judaism (After Finally Choosing to Look There)* – Sarah Hurwitz

Creed and Deed: A Series of Discourses – Felix Adler

A Horse Walks in to a Bar* – David Grossman; tr. Jessica Cohen

Maimonides: Faith in Reason – Alberto Manguel

Hebrew Melodies* – Heinrich Heine; ill. Mark Podwal, tr. Stephen Mitchell and Jack Prelutsky

The Memory Monster – Yishai Sarid; tr. Yardenne Greenspan

Men and Decisions – Lewis L. Strauss

The House of Twenty Thousand Books – Sasha Abramsky

On the Landing – Yenta Mash; tr. Ellen Cassedy

Zurau Aphorisms – Franz Kafka; tr. Howard Colyer

Passage From Home – Isaac Rosenfeld
 
Recent talks and articles:

Fifty (Well, Maybe Two) Shades of Grey: Nuance in the Relationship Between Lewis Strauss and J. Robert Oppenheimer (sponsored by the J Robert Oppenheimer Memorial Committee, recorded at SALA event center in Los Alamos): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wb7oMfKZjQg&t=3682s

Finally! Part 2 of Jewish Perspectives on Termination of Pregnancy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jwqvIpW5svs

Jews in the Manhattan Project for the Santa Fe Distinguished Lecture Series – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ehxFELPrRhg&t=28s)

The Forward article on Oppenheimer and Strauss: https://forward.com/culture/554486/robert-oppenheimer-movie-nolan-lewis-strauss-jewish/
Rabbi Jack quoted in this article about the Jewish Catalogs: https://forward.com/culture/553586/diy-ritual-jewish-catalog-havurah-hippie-strassfeld/

Click here for a recording of part 1 of a 2-part class entitled “Jewish Perspectives on Termination of Pregnancy,” presented at the Los Alamos Jewish Center.
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Listen Up!

Dear Friends:

Our hybrid Friday evening service was interrupted recently in the middle of the silent, standing prayer, the Amidah, by a voice emanating from the computer speaker querying repeatedly, “Can anyone hear me?”  Although my solitude was momentarily broken, I quickly realized that this question is precisely the question that many of us ask when we pray – can anyone hear me?  I also suspect that many Jews who elect not to attend worship services in a synagogue believe that the answer is a resounding and emphatic, “No!”
 
Leo Baeck says, “The purpose of prayer is to allow us to be alone with God” (The Essence of Judaism, p. 144).  Even for those who doubt God’s existence, however, we have the opportunity in prayer to be alone with ourselves.  It has often been pointed out (though this thought may not be quite correct) that the Hebrew word for prayer is written in the reflexive form, suggesting that prayer involves self-evaluation and introspection.  In that spirit, perhaps the real question to ask is “Am I listening to myself?” 
 
This past quarter, in addition to leading worship services at the Los Alamos Jewish Center and HaMakom in Santa Fe, I had the privilege of conducting the first service following the Chanukah rededication of the newly reconsecrated and historic synagogue in Las Vegas, New Mexico (see https://apnews.com/article/religion-new-mexico-las-vegas-united-states-sexual-abuse-by-clergy-c5cc1de15c9274eeb35017e39fefc8cc).  The story of the repurchase of that building is amazing and moving and was captured internationally.  Beverly and I also traveled up to Trinidad, Colorado, where we led a third seder on the Saturday evening during Passover at the historic synagogue there.  This magnificent building, also built in the 1880s, was miraculously spared from being lost to the Jewish community as the Jewish population of Trinidad dropped over the years (see https://gazette.com/pikespeakcourier/colorados-oldest-synagogue-refuses-to-fade-the-miracle-of-temple-aaron/article_a338feee-a7e1-11ec-a279-67dc4733dd6c.html).  I can connect you with Neal Paul if you’d like to help support that effort.
 
Beyond those activities, I had the pleasure of reading (of course! – last quarter’s list below), delivering several talks (titles listed below as well), attending the first Rabbis United conference under the auspices of Stand With Us, Zoom-leading a Shabbat service for the Thailand Progressive Jewish Community (despite the nasty time difference!!), officiating at a congregant’s extended family celebration which included a Bat Mitzvah reprise and an 80th birthday, conducting community seders in Santa Fe and Los Alamos, and, sadly, guiding mourners through the funeral service for Gloria Starner – may her memory be for a blessing.
 
I hope that those of us who choose to participate in a worship service over the next few months use some of that silent prayer time to listen carefully, to ourselves and/or to God.  And perhaps those who’ve not been regular synagogue attendees will find the upcoming services a chance to reflect internally.
 
B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack


Last quarter’s reading and presentations lists are below

Rabbi Jack Shlachter
Judaism for Your Nuclear Family
physicsrabbi@gmail.com
www.physicsrabbi.com  
Recent talks:
Jews in the Manhattan Project for the Santa Fe Distinguished Lecture Series – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ehxFELPrRhg&t=28s)

The Grapes of Roth: Three Literary Giants (Joseph, Henry, and Philip Roth) for both Oasis Albuquerque and Limmud eFestival

Jewish Bible and Commentary for the Los Alamos Methodist Church

Little Yellow Creatures in the Synagogue – or What is a Minyan? – for the Los Alamos Lenten series

The Essence of the Passover Seder – for the Albuquerque JCC

Jewish Humor – No Joke!: The Evolution of Jewish Comedy from the Bible to Today – for the Montecito retirement community in Santa Fe

Recent Reading List with highlights designated by *:

Wandering Jew: The Search for Joseph Roth – Dennis Marks

Rabbi, Mystic, or Impostor – Michal Oron

Beyond Prayer – Mitchell Chefitz

Rebellion – Joseph Roth

Big Questions Brief Answers – Rabbi Raphael Zarum and Maureen Kendler

QED: A Play – Peter Parnell

Shlomo’s Stories – Shlomo Carlebach with Susan Yael Mesinai

Eliezer Eilburg: Ten Questions and Memoir of a Renaissance Jewish Skeptic – Joseph Davis

By George: A Kaufman Collection – George S. Kaufman

Let’s Talk: A Rabbi Speaks to Christians – Michael E. Harvey

From the Jewish Provinces – Fradl Shtok; tr. Jordan Finkin and Allison Schachter

Jewish Comedy: A Serious History – Jeremy Dauber

A Christmas Present for Chanukah – William Dicker; tr. Daniel Kennedy

The Trump Passover Haggadah – Dave Cowen

Further Up the Path – Daniel Oz; tr. Jessica Cohen

Let There Be Laughter – Michael Krasny
 
On the Scaffolds* – Samuel Isban; tr. Daniel Kennedy

Filled With Laughter – Rufus Learsi

Jewish Ethics and the Care of End-of-Life Patients – ed. Peter Joel Hurwitz, Jacques Picard, and Avraham Steinberg

The Haunted Smile: The Story of Jewish Comedians in America – Lawrence J. Epstein

Chasing the Ghost: Nobelist Fred Reines and the Neutrino – Leonard A Cole

Pioneers of Religious Zionism – Raymond Goldwater
  Click here for a recording of part 1 of a 2-part class entitled “Jewish Perspectives on Termination of Pregnancy,” presented at the Los Alamos Jewish Center.
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The Difference Between Bitcoin and Bitachon

Dear Friends:

Recently I scanned the headlines of the online news, and in my haste, I mistook what was written as bitcoin for the Hebrew word “bitachon,” Bitachon is generally translated as “trust.”  (Somehow, I think that putting one’s trust in digital currency is a case of misplaced trust, but I’m not qualified to devote a quarterly to my views on finance). 
 
On the occasions that I have faced some difficulty in life, I have tried hard to reflect on all the good fortune I’ve had in my life so far.  In this way, I’ve attempted to shift my focus and thereby trust that things will work out, even if it’s not obvious how that can happen.  In all honesty, this technique has not always been successful, and a few times I’ve depended on anti-depressants and medical guidance to help me turn the corner.  But generally, it is nothing short of amazing that things tend to get resolved favorably for me.
 
During an unanticipated and significant funding cut at the Los Alamos National Laboratory decades ago, I and over a hundred of my colleagues suddenly found ourselves without jobs.  At the time, one of the Laboratory’s higher-ranking managers was an acquaintance of mine through the Jewish community, Harry Ettinger. Harry graciously met with me and offered advice on how to find a different position at the Lab.  That conversation led to a significant deepening of our friendship, and just recently, I had the sad honor of officiating at his funeral.  May his memory serve as a blessing to all who knew him.
 
Physicists are trained to be skeptics (this trait often drives the spouses of physicists to distraction).  Perhaps for this reason, a quotation from The Road into the Open (1908) by Arthur Schnitzler (tr. Roger Byers, p. 293) resonates with me.  “One can never be deceived when one mistrusts everything on earth, even one’s own mistrust.”  I might add that I cannot help but be struck by the prescience of a comment on the back of my edition which describes the book as “a finely drawn portrayal of the disintegration of Austrian liberal society under the impact of nationalism and anti-Semitism.”  One hopes that I don’t misread “American” for “Austrian.”
 
Along with my normal worship service leadership in Los Alamos and Santa Fe and several adult education programs this past quarter, and in an effort to help build community, I spoke with many congregants by phone to see how they were faring.  More than a few people shared with me some significant problem with which they were dealing (fortunately no one spoke explicitly about their unhappiness with their rabbi).  As best I could, I provided a sympathetic ear.  In hindsight, I might have served these individuals better if I’d recited a passage from the medieval ethical masterpiece entitled Duties of the Heart (circa 1080) by R. Bachya ibn Paquda; tr. Moses Hyamson, Vol 1 p. 295, which states, “What is Trust? It is tranquility of soul in the one who trusts.”
 
I wish you and yours tranquility of soul, and encourage you to invest in bitachon (not bitcoin).

B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack


Last quarter’s reading list is below

Rabbi Jack Shlachter
Judaism for Your Nuclear Family
physicsrabbi@gmail.com
www.physicsrabbi.com 
Quarterly reading list with highlights designated by *
 
Futureman – David Avidan; tr. Tsipi Keller

How to Get More Out of Being Jewish Even If: – Gil Mann

Filled with Fire and Light – Elie Wiesel

Look There: New and Selected Poems – Agi Mishol, tr. Lisa Katz

Who By Fire: Leonard Cohen in the Sinai – Matti Friedman

Medicine and Jewish Law Volume 1 – ed. Fred Rosner

Mercy of a Rude Stream (Volume 1) – Henry Roth

The Sh’ma and Its Blessings – ed. Rabbi Lawrence A. Hoffman

I’ll Cry Tomorrow – Lillian Roth

Jewish Pirates of the Caribbean – Edward Kritzler

Bad Rabbi and Other Strange but True Stories from the Yiddish Press* – Eddy Portnoy

Dineh: An Autobiographical Novel – Ida Maze, tr. Yermiyahu Ahron Taub

Judah Benjamin: Counselor to the Confederacy* – James Traub

Hebrew Matters – Joseph Lowin

Creating Sacred Communities – Ron Wolfson and Brett Kopin

The Man from the Future: The Visionary Life of John von Neumann – Ananyo Bhattacharya

Everyman – Philip Roth

Meditation and the Bible – Aryeh Kaplan

The Theology of Abraham Bibago – Allan Lazaroff

Ravelstein – Saul Bellow
Click here for a recording of my recent “Santa Fe Distinguished Lecture Series” talk on some of the colorful characters of the Manhattan Project and their Jewish connection.

Click here for a recording of part 1 of a 2-part class entitled “Jewish Perspectives on Termination of Pregnancy,” presented at the Los Alamos Jewish Center.
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Daf Yomi or Days of Our Lives

Dear Friends:

The fall holidays provide us with an annual opportunity to take stock of where we’ve been and where we are heading.  A different cycle also came to a close for me with the completion of a study discipline focused on the lesser known of the two Talmuds, the Talmud of the Land of Israel, sometimes called the Jerusalem Talmud or Yerushalmi.  This is distinct from the Talmud of Babylonia, the Bavli, which is regarded as the more authoritative of the two encyclopedic works. 

In August 2018 I embarked on a study routine of a page of Yerushalmi a day, Daf Yomi Yerushalmi, following a worldwide study regimen, and I am pleased to have survived the process, learning the very last page at the end of October 2022.  This calls for a Shehechiyanu blessing, expressing gratitude for having reached this special occasion.  It also is incumbent on me to eat an extra piece of dessert, based on the teaching from the Yerushalmi (Y. Kid. 4:12) that “a person will be called to account on judgment day for every permissible thing that he might have enjoyed but did not.”

In addition to my Yerushalmi practice, I kept busy this past quarter with the rich traditions of the fall holiday cycle, co-leading services for the HaMakom Santa Fe congregation with Cantor Cindy Freedman.  In order to give proper attention to the Bavli, I also instituted a Saturday afternoon Talmud class where we’ve been progressing methodically through Tractate Megilla (nominally discussing Purim but getting far afield at times).  It’s been wonderful to have a dozen or more HaMakom participants in that weekly class. 

The Los Alamos Jewish Center and the Albuquerque JCC also provided me with opportunities for additional adult Jewish education programs, and we’ve looked at a high-level overview of the High Holidays as well as the Jewish perspective on termination of pregnancy.  I also recently spoke to a Los Alamos National Laboratory First Responders group about Jewish traditions associated with death and burial.

Recent life cycle events ran the gamut from tragedy to elation – I officiated at a funeral for a beloved teenager as well as offering blessings for special birthdays in the congregation, kiddush at the wedding of some good friends and reciting one of the sheva berachot at Beverly’s niece’s wedding.

All in all, I find myself quite content in northern New Mexico, acknowledging that the same page of the Yerushalmi also teaches that “it is forbidden to live in a town that does not have a physician or a vegetable garden.”

Books continue to be my obsession.  Below are titles I read over the past quarter, and I’d love to hear your suggestions.

B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack


Last quarter’s reading list is below

Poems of Jerusalem – Yehuda Amichai

Jewish Vienna 1860-1938 – ed. Helfried Seemann and Christian Lunzer

The Palace Gates: Parables for the High Holy Days – Rabbi Shalom Wallach

To Be A Man – Nicole Krauss

Seeds in the Desert – Mendel Mann; tr. Heather Valencia

The Dark Gate: Selected Poems of David Vogel; tr. A.C. Jacobs

Yiddish for Everyone – Leslie Michele Manas

Before Our Very Eyes – Danny Siegel

Tashlich and the Thirteen Attributes – translation and commentary by Rabbi Avrohom Chaim Feuer

The Book of Alfred Kantor: An Artist’s Journal of the Holocaust – Alfred Kantor

It Is Impossible to Remain Silent – Jorge Semprun and Elie Wiesel

I Am Not Sick, I Don’t Need Help! How to Help Someone with Mental Illness Accept Treatment – Xavier Amador

Letters to Camondo – Edmund deWaal

The Scout – Steven Plaut

Where We Once Gathered: Lost Synagogues of Europe – Andrea Strongwater

Hebrew Manuscript Painting – David Goldstein

Twenty Girls to Envy Me: Selected Poems of Orit Gidali; translated by Marcela Sulak

Insight Israel: The View from Schechter – David Golinkin

100 Poems Without a Country – Erich Fried; tr. Stuart Hood

Man Ray: The Artist and His Shadows – Arthur Lubow

 

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An Old Dog Learns New Tricks


In the library of the Los Alamos Jewish Center

Dear Friends:
 
My childhood Jewish religious education outside the home followed what I think was the conventional Conservative synagogue approach of the baby boom era.  We learned Bible stories and the aleph-bet, meeting a few hours every Sunday, from ages 5-9.  This was then augmented by two after-school weekday lessons which taught us to read Hebrew and recite some prayers.  That program started around age 10 and ended, for most kids, a few minutes after becoming Bar Mitzvah.  I actually lasted another year in what was called Hebrew High School which by my recollection only met on Sundays.  Our teacher was a most engaging Rabbi whose name I’ve forgotten but who memorably shared with us a passage from the Talmud, my first exposure to serious Jewish study.
 
In the pre-Bar Mitzvah period, I gained the skill of reading Hebrew (though with almost zero comprehension).  I also acquired the skill of leading a Shabbat morning service through mandatory attendance at Saturday “children’s” services.  Each week, a different class would be on the hook to provide leadership for various parts of the service.  The coveted position of cantor, which my brothers and I were all expected to seek, provided the prayer leader (shaliach tsibbur) with an opportunity to stand alongside Rabbi Ezra Perkal.  He seemed ancient to me then – in reality he was actually in his early thirties. Rabbi Perkal taught us the melodies for a typical Ashkenazi Shabbat service, and those remained dormant in my brain for a decade.
 
After age 14, Judaism played little role in my life until I arrived as a graduate student in Los Alamos and decided that there were probably worse ways to meet people in town than at the Los Alamos Jewish Center.  All those old melodies now were awakened, and I found that my singing could again help lead a congregation, this time one which comprised mostly adults. 

During the early 1980s, Rabbi Leonard Helman of Temple Beth Shalom in Santa Fe was under contract to visit Los Alamos roughly once a month to teach adult education, and he exposed me to the vast corpus of traditional Jewish texts.  It was a startling realization to me that Judaism was not something for children, and I embarked on a life-long study of the richness of our tradition, learning from other rabbis and teachers whenever possible.  I remember that Rabbi Helman taught a series on Pirke Avot, sometimes known as the Ethics of the Fathers, and we learned the passage (4:1), “Who is wise? One who learns from all people.”  I’ve been blessed to learn about and develop a love for Judaism from many people, and for this I am deeply grateful.
 
This past quarter I shared some of what I’ve learned from others on a variety of occasions including the Bar Mitzvah ceremony of the son of one of my first Bar Mitzvah students (time is flying by!!), at the annual Kochavim Israeli Dance Camp in Texas (I served as Beverly’s non-dancing spouse), at a Life and Legacy Jewish Endowment gathering in Albuquerque, at a Santa Fe Interfaith Leadership Alliance event, at the funeral and shiva minyans for a beloved congregant from HaMakom, and at the service honoring Los Alamos High School graduates.  I also learned either remotely or in person from Rabbis Tamar Malino, Azriel Fellner, Neil Amswych, Martin Levy, Berel Levertov, Ron Wittenstein, Avraham Kelman, Elizabeth Goldstein, and others.  And I close this PhysicsRabbi quarterly with a quote from Albert Einstein: “Once you stop learning, you start dying.”  May you all go forth and learn.
 
B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack

 

Last quarter’s reading list is below, with highlights denoted by an asterisk*

(I got stuck unexpectedly in Spokane, Washington, with insufficient reading material, so you’ll find a few books below that were all I had available – reading can be pleasurable even without Jewish content!!)  An asterisk denotes an especially good read.
 
Read this past quarter:
 
Sholem Aleichem: Jewish Children* – tr. Hannah Berman (Gaon Jewish Classics)

Gershom Scholem* – David Biale

The Jokes of Oppression: The Humor of Soviet Jews – Harris and Rabinovich

Jewish Tales from Eastern Europe – Nadia Grosser Nagarajan

The Thirteenth Hour – Poems by Rivka Basman Ben-Haim; tr. from Yiddish by Zelda Kahan Newman

The Coat – April Grunspan

Thirst: The Desert Trilogy – Shulamith Hareven; tr. Hillel Halkin with the author

Moshkeleh the Thief – Shalom Aleichem; tr. Curt Leviant

The Rx of Dr. Z – Mitchell Chefitz

Lithuanian Hasidism – Wolf Zeev Rabinowitsch

Warsaw Stories – Hersh David Nomberg; tr. Daniel Kennedy

Ordinary Men – Christopher Browning

The People of Godlbozhits* – Leyb Rashkin; tr. Jordan Finkin

The Slaughterman’s Daughter** – Yaniv Iczkovits; tr. Orr Scharf

The Fifth Risk – Michael Lewis

Silks – Dick Francis and Felix Francis

Death in Paradise – Robert B. Parker

Zero Gravity – Woody Allen

Haikus for Jews and Zen Judaism – David Bader

A Passionate Pacifist: Essential Writings of Aaron Samuel Tamares – Everett Gendler

Breaking the Tablets: Jewish Theology After the Shoah – David Weiss Halivni; edited and introduced by Peter Ochs

 
Click here for a recording of part 1 of a 2-part class entitled “Jewish Perspectives on Termination of Pregnancy,” presented at the Los Alamos Jewish Center.

And here’s a link to my slide-show talk on some of the colorful characters of the Manhattan Project.  Click here for a recording of:
  Jews in Theory: Jews at Los Alamos, New Mexico During the Manhattan ProjectThis Zoom presentation was organized by the Long Island chapter of the American Nuclear Society.
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High Attitudes at High Altitudes

Dear Friends:
 
Beverly and I continued our transition from New York to New Mexico this past quarter, swapping out New York-style pizza for green chile, as we embarked on the arduous task of unpacking hundreds of boxes, many of them books, which had been stowed in our Los Alamos garage during our nearly month-long drive across country.  I discovered yet again that I am not as capable of handling change as I once was; I’m still adjusting to life without a daily National Laboratory routine. My focus is now on rabbinic activities, primarily in Santa Fe at HaMakom where I serve as rabbi, and in Los Alamos where I’ve often led Friday night services. 
 
One of things I admire about our Jewish texts is that the characters, even the most heroic and laudable among them, are all human with flaws as well as notably positive traits. Think of Moses (on occasion quick-tempered), King David (uncontrolled lust), and Jacob (deceitful). King Saul is particularly flawed at times, and the case can even be made that he shows evidence of manic-depression. I find it helpful to realize that we all experience emotional ups and downs, and our move to New Mexico challenged my mental health more than I anticipated. Through this period, I’ve been blessed with the support of my brother, Ted, my son, Dov, my primary care physician, and most of all, my helpmeet, Beverly. 
 
Before we recite the central passage of the morning Jewish worship service, the sequence of blessings known as the standing prayer or Amidah, we invoke the Divine as Tsur Yisrael, the Rock of Israel.  Perhaps the rabbis recognized that the Amidah, our opportunity to converse with G_d, forces us each morning to examine our lives, lives which can often seem bewildering or filled with change, sometimes driving anxiety. The image of the Rock of Israel, steadfast and unchanging, provides us with a degree of constancy and consistency that offers us comfort. 
 
During our road trip back to New Mexico, we stopped to join congregations in Roanoke, VA, Memphis, TN, and San Antonio, TX, and each experience was wonderful in its own way.  We met lovely people, learned new Shabbat tunes, and look forward to visiting those synagogues again. 
 
Despite the chaos of the move, I’ve been immersing myself in rabbinic activities.  Within the first two months of our return to the Land of Enchantment, I was privileged to conduct several lifecycle events including a Bar Mitzvah ceremony (kvelling over the fact that Dov served as the Bar Mitzvah tutor), a wedding, and a funeral, each of which represented a transition for those present.  Our Jewish traditions can provide that same comfort as we recite words from generations of teachers who draw on our rich text library. I drew on that library to teach a mini-class on How to Lead a Seder and then led or co-led seders for the HaMakom community in Santa Fe and the Los Alamos community. 
 
There are many ideas for classes I’d like to teach to the Jewish communities of Northern New Mexico and beyond, and I welcome suggestions for topics from potential participants.  In the meantime, it’s back to unpacking boxes and discovering books I never knew I owned! 
 
B’shalom, 
Rabbi Jack
 
 
Last quarter’s reading list is below, with highlights denoted by an asterisk*


Rabbi Jack Shlachter
Judaism for Your Nuclear Family
physicsrabbi@gmail.com
www.physicsrabbi.com

My reading list for the past quarter is artificially inflated by several short works, but now that books are reappearing on my shelves, I promise to return to lengthier works – honest! 
 
The Sages (Volume 1) – Binyamin Lau; tr. Michael Prawer 

Moneyball – Michael Lewis (no Jewish content but all I could find at one point on our journey) 

Alfred Stieglitz (Jewish Lives series) – Phyllis Rose 

Lillian Hellman (Jewish Lives) –  Dorothy Gallagher 

The Pity of It All* – Amos Elon 

Yiddish Tales – tr. Helena Frank 

Kaddish and other Poems – Allen Ginsberg 

Rashi’s Daughters, Book 1: Joheved – Maggie Anton 

The Book of J – Harold Bloom and David Rosenberg 

Our Country Friends – Gary Shteyngart 

Codex Maimuni: The Illuminated Pages of the Kaufman Mishnah Torah 

New Mexico’s Crypto-Jews: Photographs by Cary Herz 

World of Our Fathers* – Irving Howe 

Falik and His House – Jacob Dinezon; tr. Mindy Liberman 

Solos and Ensembles – Philip LeCuyer 

You Are Not Alone: Solace and Inspiration for Domestic Violence Survivors Based on Jewish Wisdom – Toby
Landesman 

Blue Has No South – Alex Epstein; tr. Becka Mara McKay 

Frayed Light – Yonatan Berg; tr. Joanna Chen 

Arabic Folk Tales – Asher Barash 

Through an Endless Stretch of Land – Kadya Molodowsky; tr. Yaira Singer  

 

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From Boroughs To Burros


A last walk along the ocean before we headed west

Dear Friends:

I begin this bittersweet missive with a paraphrase of a passage from the first major Rabbinic text, the Mishnah, in which Rabbi Nechunya ben HaKanah composed a prayer (M. Ber. 4).  This prayer expresses my own experience with the Jewish Center of the Moriches. “Upon my entrance, I prayed that no mishaps should occur because of me; and upon my departure, I offer thanksgiving for my good fortune in having been among you.”

In July 2019 it was “Go East, Young Man.”  Now it’s “Return West, not-as-young Man.”  I thought the title of this missive was cute, but it’s not terribly accurate.  Technically, of course, Beverly and I were living for the past two-and-a-half years on eastern Long Island, not in the boroughs of New York City, and I can’t remember that I’ve ever seen a Southwestern burro (Spanish for “donkey”) except for the statue in Burro Alley in downtown Santa Fe. Nonetheless, the title captures the focus of this past quarter which was our move back to the high desert of Northern New Mexico.  
 
While still in New York, Beverly and I ventured further out on the island for a weekend getaway in East Hampton where we davened in a gorgeous shul (Jewish Center of the Hamptons) which we’d Zoomed into on occasion.  In New England, I got to revisit the lovely Boston Synagogue on a brief trip to visit my niece, Ruby.  Both occasions resulted in aliyah honors for which I am grateful.  Closer to home (now our former home), I had the privilege of delivering a d’var Torah at Temple Beth El in Patchogue, NY, and TBE also generously offered me the opportunity to chant Haftarah on multiple Shabbatot.  
 
At the Jewish Center of the Moriches where Beverly and I were indeed privileged to serve, we held a mixture of Zoom-only and hybrid (Zoom plus in-person) events including a long-awaited Bar Mitzvah ceremony.  I also represented JCM at a few outdoor civic/public “menorah” (technically “Hanukkiot”) lighting events over Hanukah.  At one of those, I quoted from George Washington’s letter to the Touro Synagogue: “The Government of the United States… gives to bigotry no sanction, to persecution no assistance.”  Our first president’s words remain remarkably relevant today.
 
Preparations for moving back to the southwest, including packing 85 boxes of books, put a crimp in my reading list (see below).  I guess electronic readers have a few advantages, but I’m still addicted to print copies on shelves.  Please send me your reading suggestions, and once we’re unpacked, I’ll resume my book-buying mania.  Until then, quoting from the aforementioned August 21, 1790 presidential brief, “May the father of all mercies scatter light, and not darkness, upon our paths, and make us all in our several vocations useful here, and in His own due time and way everlastingly happy.”
 
B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack
 
Last quarter’s reading list is below, with highlights denoted by an asterisk*


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The Rivals & Other Stories – Jonah Rosenfeld, tr. from Yiddish by Rachel Mines

Knowing God – Elliot Dorff

Structure and Form in the Babylonian Talmud – Louis Jacobs

The Story of Bible Translations – Max Margolis

Track Changes – Sayed Kashua (Thanks go to Phyllis for recommending this book to me)

Rav Kook’s Introduction to Shabbat Ha’Aretz – tr. Julian Sinclair

The Last Jew – Yoram Kaniuk, tr. Barbara Harshav

A Book of Psalms – selected and adapted from the Hebrew by Stephen Mitchell

The Doctrine of the Zaddik in the Thought of Elimelech of Lizensk – Louis Jacobs

People Love Dead Jews-Dara Horn

Rav Kook:Mystic in a Time of Revolution – Yehudah Mirsky

Zoom Torah – Mitchell Chefitz (Kindle)

A History of Jewish Literature Vol. 1 – The Arabic-Spanish Period – Israel Zinberg – tr. Bernard Martin

Israel: A Concise History of a Nation Reborn – Daniel Gordis

Irving Berlin: New York Genius* – James Kaplan

Maimonides: Life and Thought – Moshe Halbertal

God: A Biography* – Jack Miles
 
and uncharacteristically, binge-watching the Israeli television series Srugim while in the midst of packing
 

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The Bells are Ringing for Me and Miguel (New Mexico Weddings)

Dear Friends:

The Talmud (BT Shab. 30a) says that “there is no marriage contract and wedding in which contentiousness does not arise,” but I find all weddings to be joyous affairs nonetheless. Beverly and I spent a week and a half in New Mexico in October, where I was privileged to officiate at not one but two weddings and meet with two other couples whose weddings are slated for 2022.  

I then headed into Brooklyn two days after our return to New York to perform another wedding ceremony. The process of registering to conduct weddings in New York City was complex, and it required that I muster both patience and persistence. Fortunately, I was ultimately successful and am now proud to have an officiant registration number from NYC.  I suspect that there is a pandemic backlog of wedding ceremonies in the offing, and I hope to help share in the joy of as many couples as possible.  

Recently, I was a student in a wonderful 8-lecture course taught by Rabbi Shai Held on the theme of Love and Judaism (I’m ever grateful that lifelong learning has been facilitated by the ubiquity of Zoom – perhaps this is the KAVOD [honor] of COVID).  The love that G_d expresses toward people can be transformed into the love we demonstrate toward each other, and I find that wedding ceremonies provide a powerful opportunity to witness this transformation.  
 
I also participated in other life cycle events over the past quarter including holding Beverly’s newest great nephew at a brit milah (I didn’t even come close to dropping him!), officiating at a Bar Mitzvah ceremony at the Jewish Center of the Moriches, and attending a funeral service for a JCM congregant, Michael Schondorf.  Mike was a sweet, sweet man whom I met at High Holiday services in 2019, and although he was trapped in Puerto Rico during much of the pandemic, it was always a treat when he was able to phone in to our Shabbat evening services.

Sadly, my first cousin, David Sherman, also passed away recently. I was honored to be able to support the family by leading a shiva minyan in the Chicago area. The presence of Beverly, my brother, Ted, my Aunt Bobbie, and my other cousins plus scores of David and Sue’s friends and family mitigated a bit of the grief in our loss of this special person. May Mike’s and David’s memories serve as blessings.
 
Various other rabbinic responsibilities continued to keep me out of trouble.  I enjoyed leading the plethora of Tishrei holiday services in hybrid mode (in-person plus Zoom) at the Jewish Center of the Moriches, taught some classes in advance of the High Holidays, worked a few times with the Sunday School, and even led a delegation to an exhibition baseball game featuring the Israeli Olympic team. I got to chant a chapter of the Book of Lamentations as well as Haftarot at a few nearby synagogues on Long Island and co-led services in Santa Fe on our New Mexico trip.

But the real highlight of my rabbi-ing is to chant the wedding blessings.  May the gates of Jerusalem ring with the sounds of joy, song, merriment, and delight – the voice of the groom and the voice of the bride, the happy shouts of their friends and companions.
 
B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack

Scroll down for last quarter’s reading list.

Last quarter’s reading list, with highlights denoted by an asterisk*

Petty Business* – Yirmi Pinkus, tr. Evan Fallenberg and Yardenne Greenspan

With Roots in Heaven – Tirzah Firestone

Maybe You Will Survive – Aron Goldfarb and Graham Diamond

The Conversion of Chaplain Cohen – Herbert Tarr

The Abandoned Book and Other Yiddish Stories – ed. Eitan Krensky

The Jewish Wife and Other Short Plays – Bertolt Brecht, tr. Eric Bentley

The Silver Candelabra and Other Stories: A Century of Jewish Argentine Literature – ed. Rita Gardiol

The Culture of the Babylonian Talmud – Jeffrey Rubenstein

Last Bullet Calls It – Amir Gutfreund, tr. Evan Fallenberg and Yardenne Greenspan

Bugsy Siegel: The Dark Side of the American Dream – Michael Shnayerson

Burnt Pearls: Ghetto Poems – Abraham Sutzkever, tr. Seymour Mayne

Responsa in War Time – Division of Religious Activities National Jewish Welfare Board

Apiqoros: The Last Essays of Salomon Maimon – tr. Timothy Sean Quinn

The Greatest Story Ever Sold – A Considered and Whimsical Illumination of the Really Good Parts of the Holy Writ – Reed Martin and Austin Tichenor

The Modern Family and Jewish Law – ed. Walter Jacob

Oreo* – Fran Ross (If you are the person who suggested this book to me, I am very grateful to you)

Genesis – Bill Moyers

The Beijing Haggadah* – created by Leon Fenster

Sage Tales: Wisdom and Wonder from the Rabbis of the Talmud* – Burton Visotzky

On Cosmic Religion and Other Opinions and Aphorisms – Albert Einstein

Tel Aviv Noir – ed. Etgar Keret and Assaf Gavron, tr. Yardenne Greenspan

Stanley Kubrick: American Filmmaker – David Mikics

Understanding Genesis – Nahum Sarna

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Shepping Nachas, not Nachos

This past quarter has certainly seen Beverly and me venturing back out into the world more than any time in the previous year, driven in large part by our achieving fully vaccinated status.  (If you’re eligible for the vaccine but not vaccinated, I’d like to hear your concerns and share some guidance from a rabbinic perspective; see https://www.rabbinicalassembly.org/sites/default/files/2021-01/Vaccination%20and%20Ethical%20Questions%20Posed%20by%20COVID-19%20Vaccines%20-%20Final.pdf for some examples of relevant texts). 

With the generosity of the UJA-Federation of New York and the New York Board of Rabbis, we headed up to a retreat center in northwestern Connecticut for a few days of most fulfilling and much needed R&R, study, and fellowship along with about 20 New York rabbis.  From there, Beverly and I then visited the Yiddish Book Center in Amherst, Massachusetts, for their first day of reopening after a 15-month hiatus.  All this followed my engagement in an intensive, ten-day, remote Yiddish Book Center program entitled “The Great Jewish Books for Clergy and Educators.”

These rich activities together conspired to suggest to me that my reading of texts has become a bit too superficial, with a focus on quantity over quality, and I am now inspired to spend more time savoring words on the printed page rather than gulping them down.  Perhaps this message can apply to how we approach prayer in the sanctuary as well, and as we begin to prepare ourselves for the High Holiday experience, it may be helpful to practice dwelling on a single passage that catches our eye rather than feel bound to turn pages at the pace of the prayer leader.  Please consider giving this a try over the next few months as you attend worship services during the months of Av and Elul preceding Rosh HaShanah – note the subtle hint to familiarize yourselves with the liturgy before the Jewish New Year!

Several rabbi opportunities presented themselves to me these past months – among these were leading an in-person Bar Mitzvah ceremony at the Jewish Center of the Moriches (JCM) as well as one on a beach in Montauk, NY, delivering talks on the Aleph Bet and on Estrangement of Adult Children from Parents, giving a D’var Torah at HaMakom in Santa Fe over Zoom and one in person at Temple Beth-El in Patchogue thanks to the graciousness of my friends and teachers Hazzan Cindy Freedman and Rabbi Azriel Fellner respectively, offering short teachings at a JCM nature hike and a Life and Legacy Chai Tea, and sharing a blessing with a congregant at a round number birthday.  Perhaps most enjoyable, however, was serving as a remote guest “lecturer” as my son, Dov, taught a lesson to a 12-year old who is studying for Bar Mitzvah.  When I declined the request of the parents to teach regularly because of too many other obligations, Beverly suggested Dov as a Bar Mitzvah teacher, and he willingly took on the task.  I was beaming with pride (shepping nachas) as I watched Dov in action, and I look forward to the ceremony in 2022.  In the meantime, I’ll continue reading books from our home library, but maybe at reduced speed.

B’shalom, Rabbi Jack

Last quarter’s reading list, with highlights denoted by an asterisk*

Theodor Herzl: The Charismatic Leader – Yale Jewish Lives series – Derek Penslar

Undula – Bruno Schulz – tr. from Polish by Frank Garrett

Responsa in a Moment: Halakhic Responses to Contemporary Issues Volume II* – David Golinkin

Essential Prose – Avrom Sutzkever – tr. Zackery Sholem Berger

Redeeming Relevance in the Book of Numbers – Francis Nataf

The Last Interview* – Eshkol Nevo – tr. Sondra Silverston

Studies in the Variety of Rabbinic Cultures – Gerson Cohen

The Tale of a Niggun – Elie Wiesel, illus. Mark Podwal

The Dark Young Man – Jacob Dinezon – tr. Tina Lunson

Ask the Rabbi: Women Rabbis Respond to Modern Halakhic Questions – Monique Susskind Goldberg and Diana Villa

Mother of Royalty: An Exposition of the Book of Ruth in the Light of the Sources – Yehoshua Bachrach

The Wandering Beggar – Solomon Simon

Rules of Estrangement: Why Adult Children Cut Ties and How to Heal the Conflict – Joshua Coleman

The Legends of the Rabbis Volume 2 – Judah Nadich

The Pharisees and Other Essays – Leo Baeck

City of Palaces – Poems by Isaac Berliner, Drawings by Diego Rivera, tr. Mindy Rinkewich

The Status of Women in Jewish Law: Responsa – David Golinkin

The Canvas and Other Stories* – Salomea Perl – tr. Ruth Murphy

Jokes and Their Relation to the Unconscious – Sigmund Freud – tr. James Strachey

Strange Ways – Rokhl Faygenberg – tr.  Robert and Golda Werman

Redeeming Relevance in the Book of Deuteronomy – Francis Nataf

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You’re on Mute!


Dear friends:

This “physicsrabbi” quarterly missive explores some positives that have emerged as a result of the ongoing pandemic.  In 2019, Beverly put many of our belongings into storage in Santa Fe and packed other items for shipment to New York based on a best guess of what we’d need during this Long Island adventure.  Among those things we had shipped were two that had received limited use previously, a shtender and a shoji screen (Japanese folding room divider).  Amazingly, these have both become invaluable over the past year. 

A shtender is a small (usually wooden) frame that holds a book, and it is most often associated with religious study.  I now realize that when I daven (pray) in a shul (synagogue), unconsciously I must be resting my siddur (prayer book) either on a podium (when I am leading a service) or on the back of the chair or pew in front of me.  Now that I am worshiping via Zoom, I place my book on the shtender and seem to alleviate some strain on my body.  My davening is conducted largely in my cloffice (a wonderful pandemic-inspired neologism combining “closet” and “office”), and to provide some privacy, we often put the Japanese screen in place behind me.  That screen was purchased years ago and never used until this past year, and it’s become invaluable as a room divider. 

The shtender and the Japanese screen are simply two examples of things we never knew would be so useful when they were acquired, and the same holds true for knowledge and experience.  We may not know at the time why there is value in some nugget of truth we learn or novel situation we face.  Yet down the road that piece of information or that lived experience can perhaps provide comfort.  The next time I learn something new which appears unnecessary or live through some episode that is difficult, perhaps I’ll consider that the value will only appear years later.  The ways of G_d are truly mysterious.

Aside from conducting the usual Zoom Shabbat services this past quarter, I led Tu BiSh’vat and Passover seders, a Purim service, a Yizkor service, Yahrzeit minyans for my Mom, a study session to override the fast of the firstborn, taught at the Sunday school once a month, and gave newly prepared talks on (1) Aleph Bet: Stories and Teachings from the Hebrew Letters, and (2) Seder Customs Around the World, as well as reprising a slide show on the (3) Jews in China, which we held on the Chinese New Year. 

Last weekend, Beverly and I took an excursion from Long Island into Brooklyn and got to see an art installation by a young woman we met at Kehillat Beijing who is now in New York.  Amalya Megerman showed us her Super Cleanse exhibit which explores deep questions, including the role of Jewish ritual.  You can also view some of her stained glass Judaica (and non-Judaica) pieces at http://amalyamegerman.com/shop.

At a Zoom Shiva session for a friend and colleague from Los Alamos, Karina Yusim, I marveled that friends and relatives currently living in Russia, Israel, and across the United States were all able to participate simultaneously.  Zoom has also been one of those positives to emerge from the pandemic, and I appreciated the respectful tone of the Shiva – everyone stayed focused on Karina and took their turn speaking.  To quote Ecclesiastes (3:7), there is a time for silence and a time for speaking.  Shiva provides us with the opportunity to support the bereaved through our presence, not through our chatter.  Yet the recent observance of Yom HaShoah reminds us that there is also a time to speak up and speak forcefully, particularly when the lives of other human beings are at stake. 

May we all have the wisdom to know when to speak and when to stay silent, and may our masks soon become unnecessary.

B’shalom,
Rabbi Jack

Last quarter’s reading list, with highlights denoted by an asterisk*

Light and Shadow – Herz Bergner, tr. Alec Braizblatt

Jewish Theology in our Time – ed. Elliot Cosgrove

The World As I See It – Albert Einstein

And the Bride Closed the Door – Ronit Matalon, tr. Jessica Cohen

21 Lessons for the 21st Century – Yuval Harari

Stan Lee: A Life in Comics* – Yale Jewish Lives series – Liel Leibovitz

Honey on the Page – Miriam Udel

Faith After the Holocaust – Eliezer Berkovits

Printing the Talmud: From Bomberg to Schottenstein* – ed. Sharon Mintz and Gabriel Goldstein

Diary of a Lonely Girl – Miriam Karpilove, tr. Jessica Kirzane

Redeeming Relevance in the Book of Leviticus – Francis Nataf

Rereading the Rabbis: A Woman’s Voice – Judith Hauptman

King David’s Harp: Autobiographical Essays by Jewish Latin American Writers* – ed. Stephen Sadow

Selected Plays – Hanoch Levin (Vol. 1), tr. Jessica Cohen, Evan Fallenberg, and Naaman Tammuz

Reimagining the Bible – Howard Schwartz

A Mother’s Kisses – Bruce Jay Friedman

Wisdom of the Heart: The Teachings of Rabbi Ya’akov of Izbica-Radzyn – Ora Wiskind-Elper

Houdini: The Elusive American* – Yale Jewish Lives series – Adam Begley

The Name – Michal Govrin, tr. Barbara Harshav

None Is Too Many: Canada and the Jews of Europe 1933-1948 – Irving Abella and Harold Troper

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